Revoir vs Heartlog: Which Dating Journal Fits You?

Disclosure: This post is written by the team at Revoir Software, the makers of Revoir. We have a stake in the outcome. Everything we say about Heartlog comes from its public App Store listing and privacy policy as of October 2026. Check the listing yourself before you decide, because apps change.

You are comparing two dating journal apps. Both are for people who are already dating and want to remember what happened and see what keeps repeating. This is how they differ.

What they have in common

Both apps let you:

Keep profiles for the people you are seeing
Log dates and write down how they went
Reflect after a date instead of letting it blur together
Start free, with a paid Premium tier

If you want the basics of why this helps, see what a dating journal is.

Where your journal lives

This is the difference that matters most.

Revoir stores everything on your phone. There is no account and no cloud. Your entries, moods and notes never reach a Revoir server, so there is nothing for us to read, share or lose in a breach.

Heartlog's App Store listing says data is end-to-end encrypted. Its privacy policy says journal entries, reflections and messages are stored in Firebase Cloud Storage and/or Firestore. Its App Privacy section lists contact info, user content, identifiers and usage data as linked to you.

Neither choice is wrong. Cloud storage can make it easier to move between devices. But if the reason you are hesitating to write honestly is "who else could see this," that is what Revoir was built to answer. For more options, see the best dating journal apps in 2026.

What the AI does

Heartlog has Amie, an AI assistant that gives dating guidance and can refer to your recent dates, prospects and entries.

Revoir has Mira, an on-device AI chat about the people you log. Chatting with Mira is free. Premium adds her memory, so your chats are saved and she picks up where you left off. Revoir also shows pattern insights after 5 dates, and that part is free.

Features only one of them lists

Heartlog lists a calendar for scheduling dates, photo attachments, weekly community polls and monthly recaps.
Revoir tracks your mood before, during and after each date, so you can see whether someone is good for you or just exciting in theory. It also exports shareable cards.

Price

Free tier: Revoir: Yes, core logging with no time limit. Heartlog: Free to download.
Monthly: Revoir: $4.99. Heartlog: $6.99.
Annual: Revoir: $39.99. Heartlog: $39.99.
One-time: Revoir: $79.99 Lifetime. Heartlog: Not listed.

Heartlog also sells 20 Amie Insights as a one-off purchase for $3.99. Prices are in USD from each App Store listing in October 2026.

Which one should you pick?

Pick Revoir if you want no account, nothing stored off your phone, and mood tracking built around how a date felt.

Pick Heartlog if you want a calendar, photo memories, and an AI companion, and you are comfortable with cloud storage.

If you are still deciding whether you want an app at all, dating journal vs spreadsheet covers the alternatives.

FAQ

Is Revoir or Heartlog more private?

Revoir keeps your data on your device with no account. Heartlog's privacy policy says journal content may be stored in Firebase. If privacy is your top concern, Revoir stores less about you.

Is Revoir cheaper than Heartlog?

Revoir Premium is $4.99 a month and Heartlog Premium is $6.99 a month. Both are $39.99 a year. Revoir also has a $79.99 Lifetime option.

Do both apps have AI?

Yes. Heartlog has Amie and Revoir has Mira. Mira runs on your phone and chatting with her is free. Revoir Premium adds her long-term memory.

Can I use Revoir without an account?

Yes. Revoir needs no account, email or sign-up.