Dating Style¶
Understand your attachment style and compatibility patterns.
What Is Dating Style?¶
Your Dating Style is based on attachment theory — the psychological framework for understanding how people connect in relationships.
The Four Styles¶
Secure 💚¶
- Comfortable with intimacy and independence
- Communicates needs clearly
- Handles conflict constructively
Anxious 💛¶
- Craves closeness and reassurance
- May worry about partner's feelings
- Highly attuned to relationship dynamics
Avoidant 💙¶
- Values independence strongly
- May feel overwhelmed by too much closeness
- Needs space to process emotions
Disorganized (Push-Pull) ❤️¶
- Mixed patterns of anxious and avoidant
- May send mixed signals
- Often rooted in past experiences
Discovering Your Style¶
Take the Quiz¶
Revoir includes an optional quiz to help identify your style:
- Go to You tab
- Tap Dating Style
- Complete the quiz (5 minutes)
- See your results
Manual Selection¶
If you already know your style, you can select it directly without taking the quiz.
Compatibility Insights¶
Once you've set your style, Revoir can show compatibility patterns:
- "Secure + Anxious: Generally positive with good communication"
- "Avoidant + Anxious: May create push-pull dynamics"
Tip
Compatibility insights are observations, not predictions. Any pairing can work with awareness and effort.
Tagging Others¶
You can assign a dating style to people you're dating:
- Open their profile
- Tap Dating Style
- Select their style (or "Unknown")
This helps Revoir surface relevant insights about your patterns with different styles.